Things are not going very well right now. We are beginning to talk about the days without a woman around.
And I wish you were more understanding.

Ok, I just came back from the hospital and I thought I want to share my thoughts on staunch christians for today. They suck!
Some of my relatives are christians and I really do appreciate that they have been keeping my mum in prayers. My mum is cool and she accepts all sorts of prayers during [...]

Mum was doing pretty okay a week ago and we thought the chemo and radiotherapy sessions were not causing much side effects on her. But her condition deteriorated suddenly this week and I sense strongly that she’s suffering in silence. There were times she couldn’t even speak because she was paralysed with pain.
I always feel that hope [...]

Armed with chairs, tibits and beer, we brought mum to Marina South to catch the fireworks burst across the night sky of Marina Promenade. The jam was horribly long, but the fireworks display was absolutely spectacular!

This morning was one of the rare times she cried.
She asked, “If I were not saved from my last operation, wouldn’t my circumstances be better?”
Pain has taken her over, emotionally, mentally and physically. A pain worse than pain.

Today, she said, “If I have to leave, do not think that God has been unfair to me because I have been blessed with a good husband and two good sons. What more can I ask?”
If you ask me, I will tell you that God is playing a big joke on us. Just when I thought I [...]

I think I am just darn lucky to have such a good family. I've heard many times from friends about illnesses or divorces and I have always felt a sense of immunity to such realities. It's like happening all the time. But people’s testimonies are always a reminder of the truth behind "you dont know what you have [...]

Mum was stronger than I thought. Together, we will fight the battle.

Tonight has been the worst time of my life.
I love you, Mum. Get well soon.